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2 https://archive.vcu.edu/english/engweb/transcendentalism/authors/emerson/essays/compensation.html

3 https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/shawshank_redemption/quotes

4 Hebrew Bible, Matthew 22:35-40 (NIV)

5 https://dailypoetry.me/rilke/so-we-live

6 https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/alfred_lord_tennyson_153702

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8 Ibid

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11 https://courses.lumenlearning.com/atd-hostos-childdevelopment/chapter/relationships-and-families-in-adulthood/

12 Bains, Rupinder. “No Right or Wrong Way to Cope with Grief and Loss.” The Weekly Review, Alberta Weekly Newspaper Association, 16 Dec. 2014, p. A.3.

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14 BREAKTHROUGH| Breaking Through the Barrier | Lies the …. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQCK6nG6LkQ

15 Zak Funeral Home Cleveland Ohio, Cleveland Ohio Funeral …. https://www.zakfuneralhome.com/grief-and-healing#!

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22 http://tinyurl.com/y6a2rdcb

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24 Comfortable with Uncertainty, by Pema Chodron https://books.google.com/books id=Vw87euioS0cC&pg=PA150&lpg=PA150&dq=pema+chodron’s+”everything+is+workable”&source=bl&ots=SNYPH0uNww&sig=ACfU3U1xwjwpBht4hPwTobSHSW3BbXjMHA&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj2iuS8uvgAhVkU98KHVOHBgIQ6AEwBXoECAQQAQ#v=onepage&q=pema chodron’s “everything is workable”&f=false

25 https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/03/buddhism-meditation-anxiety-therapy/584308

26 Forgive & Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve, by Lewis Smedes

27 https://www.academia.edu/36955122/_Five_Things_Everyone_Should_Know_About_Forgiving_Lewis_Smedes

28 https://www.amazon.com/Art-Forgiving-Lewis-B-Smedes/dp/034541344X

29 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201108/13-qualities-look-in-effective-psychotherapist

30 https://news.stanford.edu/news/2005/june15/jobs-061505.html

31 http://tinyurl.com/y476qkc6

32 Vicky Beeching, Christian rock star ‘I’m gay. God loves me …. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/news/vicky-beeching-star-of-the-christian-rock-scene-im-gay-god-loves-me-just-the-way-i-am-9667566.html

33 https://www.amazon.com/Undivided-Coming-Becoming-Whole-Living/dp/0062439901

34 https://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity?language=en

35 20 Celebrities Who Never Finished High School | Fox News. https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/20-celebrities-who-never-finished-high-school

36 Davis, Kortright. “The Legacy of Black Prophetic Moments: Dynastic Monuments versus Dynamic Movements.” Anglican Theological Review, vol. 97, no. 3, Anglican Theological Review, Inc., July 2015, p. 449.

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39 The Top Five Regrets of the Dying : A Life Transformed by …. https://books.google.com/books/about/The_Top_Five_Regrets_of_the_Dying.html?id=OL8ne9Zgf88C

40 You may not realize it when it happens, by Walt Disney. http://www.quotes-positive.com/quote/you-not-realize-happens-kick-121/

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42 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/23562101_A_history_of_the_early_days_of_personality_testing_in_American_industry_An_obsession_with_adjustment

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44 http://journalpsyche.org/jungian-model-psyche

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46 https://www.simplypsychology.org/carl-jung.html

47 James Hollis, Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life (Avery, 2005), Kindle loc. 221-223.

48 The Middle Passage, from Misery to Meaning in Midlife by …. https://appliedjung.com/the-middle-passage/

49 https://www.amazon.com/Homo-Deus-Brief-History-Tomorrow/dp/0062464345

50 Palimpsest: A Memoir, Gore Vidal

51 Complementary Colors – Designbar. https://www.designbaronline.com/complementary_colors/

52 Before I Die – You Must Know This About The Future …. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsWnynNMCzk

53 https://www.bustle.com/articles/67401-what-were-the-monks-on-house-of-cards-doing-in-the-white-house-they-had-me

54 Songwriters: Kerry Livgren / Kerry A Livgren, Dust in the Wind lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC

55 https://www.carl-jung.net/mandala.html

56 http://www.mandalasforthesoul.com/native-american-mandala

57 http://www.cgjungpage.org/learn/articles/culture-and-psyche/908-the-medicine-wheel-as-a-symbol-of-native-american-psychology

58 Anthony Stevens, Carl Jung: A Very Short Introduction, (OUP Oxford), Kindle loc: 1793-1795

59 https://www.amazon.com/Red-Book-Philemon-C-Jung/dp/0393065677/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=red+book+jung&qid=1550686002&s=gateway&sr=8-1

60 Carl Jung – Mandala. https://carl-jung.net/mandala.html

61 Symbol – Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symbology

62 Flower Color Symbolism | Flower Shopping. https://www.flowershopping.com/shop-by-color/FlowerColorSymbolism/

63 Lily Flower Meaning & Symbolism | Teleflora. https://www.teleflora.com/meaning-of-flowers/lily

64 The 3 Steps Of Essentialism: How To Achieve More By Doing …. https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/11/29/the-3-steps-of-essentialism-achieving-more-by-doing-less-according-to-greg-mckeown/

65 The Four Aspects of “Self” – Balancing Mind, Body & Soul …. http://www.balancingmindbodysoul.co.uk/spiritual-development/the-four-aspects-of-self

66 The Four Aspects of “Self” – Balancing Mind, Body & Soul …. http://www.balancingmindbodysoul.co.uk/spiritual-development/the-four-aspects-of-self

67 https://www.stjo.org/native-american-culture/native-american-beliefs/four-directions/

68 http://www.businessdictionary.com/definition/psychographics.html, demographics, and ideology.

69 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/owning-pink/201209/the-health-benefits-finding-your-tribe

70 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1695733/

71 https://www.census.gov/hhes/migration/about/cal-mig-exp.html

72 Wells, William D. (May 1975). “Psychographics: A critical review”. Journal of Marketing Research12: 196—213. 

73  “Searching for Whitopia”Richbenjamin.com. Archived from the original on 1 December 2012. Retrieved 23 March 2013.

74 https://www.newyorker.com/science/maria-konnikova/social-media-affect-math-dunbar-number-friendships

75 https://www.technologyreview.com/s/601369/your-brain-limits-you-to-just-five-bffs

76 http://classics.mit.edu/Aristotle/nicomachaen.html

77 Friendship, Love and Marriage by Henry David Thoreau, https://play.google.com/store/books/details?id=u7KwAAAAIAAJ&rdid=book-u7KwAAAAIAAJ&rdot=1

78 https://www.gutenberg.org/files/1998/1998-h/1998-h.htm

79 http://tinyurl.com/y43467ur

80 http://classics.mit.edu/Aristotle/nicomachaen.8.viii.html

81 https://www.simplypsychology.org/attachment.html

82 https://www.verywellmind.com/john-bowlby-biography-1907-1990-2795514

83 Levine, Amir. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love (Kindle Locations 330-337). Penguin Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.

84 https://getrevising.co.uk/revision-notes/continuity_hypothesis_case_study_the_love_quiz

85 “Attached” by Levine and Heller, Kindle Location 119.

86 Ibid, Kindle location 163-165.

87 Ibid, Kindle location 166.

88 Levine, Amir. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love (Kindle Location 634). Penguin Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.

89 How Toxic People Affect Your Health – HCPNow. https://www.hcpnow.com/how-toxic-people-affect-your-health

90 Detox Your Relationships | Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-truisms-wellness/201609/detox-your-relationships

91 http://tinyurl.com/yyvvv6dw

92 Scalable Learning of Collective Behavior Based on Sparse …. http://www.public.asu.edu/%7Ehuanliu/papers/cikm09.pdf

93 https://hbr.org/2012/06/learning-charisma-2

94 How to develop charisma in 3 steps …. https://www.thinkadvisor.com/2011/01/24/advisor-pointer-how-to-develop-charisma-in-3-steps/

95 https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/45-questions-to-ask-to-get-to-know-someone.html

96 What we Pay Attention to is What we Love. | elephant journal. https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/09/what-we-pay-attention-to-is-what-we-love

97 John Muir Quotes (Author of My First Summer in the Sierra …. https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/5297.John_Muir?page=5

98 The Lost Art of Listening by Michael P. Nichols, The Guilford Press; 2 edition (February 16, 2009)

99 Friend of A Friend by David Burkus, Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2018, pp 174-191.