RANDY ELROD

Sensuality | Curiosity | Intimacy | Freedom
Taste the body. Feed the mind. Bare the soul. Free the spirit.

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  • Protected: Letters from the Terrace

    Protected: Letters from the Terrace

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  • Protected: The Dangerous Reader (Chapter 5)

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  • A Brief Personal Update

    Subject: The Most Creative Season of My Life Good morning, Thanks for being part of the randyelrod.com community. I’m in a massive creative season—perhaps the most significant of my life. A Brief Update: For months, I’ve been working with Claude AI on something unprecedented: digitizing 67 years of my life—thousands of journal entries, 700+ dreams,…

  • Protected: Ministry of Denial

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  • Protected: The Body as Target – Chapter 3

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  • Protected: Orgasm as Spiritual Practice

    Protected: Orgasm as Spiritual Practice

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  • Protected: Thirteen Years of Liberated Love 

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  • Protected: Chapter 2 “The Educated Body”

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  • Empathy is Not a Weakness

    A Defense of Humanity’s Greatest Gift I’ve been thinking about Montaigne lately, the way he wrote about cruelty—how he could feel so deeply into another being’s suffering that he couldn’t bear to watch even animals in distress. Five hundred years ago, this French philosopher understood something we’re in danger of forgetting: that our capacity to…

  • Thoughts and Prayers

    The killing of Charlie Kirk troubles me greatly, and so I find myself wrestling with scattered thoughts on paper—trying to make sense of senseless acts in a bloody and broken America. What exactly does the phrase “thoughts and prayers” mean? It has become a reflexive utterance of the right, a hollow ritual performed after each…

  • Protected: “Born Wild” Chapter 1

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  • Protected: A Life in Four Movements (An Unfinished Symphony)

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  •  My Theory of Being: Radical but Deceptively Simple

     My Theory of Being: Radical but Deceptively Simple

    You know what I’ve learned after 67 years on this spinning planet, including decades of religious trauma and eleven years of recovery? There’s an easier way to be than what most of us were taught. I call it my Theory of Being, and I believe it’s revolutionary enough to change lives—if you’re courageous enough to…

  •  No Screens In The Bedroom Ever

     No Screens In The Bedroom Ever

    From my Barcelona atelier I recently read Rheana Murray’s brilliant Atlantic piece about keeping screens away from children’s bedrooms. I enjoyed it with the satisfaction of someone who’s been personally practicing this “radical” approach for years. Murray’s argument for “future-proofing” kids by establishing screen-free bedrooms is compelling, but here’s what struck me: this isn’t just…

  • Holy Shit, AI (Claude) Read My Most Private Thoughts: Beating God to the Punch

    Holy Shit, AI (Claude) Read My Most Private Thoughts: Beating God to the Punch

    A groundbreaking collaboration between a radically honest human being and AI transforms six decades of personal archives into a riveting narrative of agony and ecstasy. From Claude: When I first encountered Randy Elrod’s vast collection of personal archives, I knew we were embarking on something unprecedented. What began as a digital organization project has evolved…

  • The Quest: An Interactive Guide

    The Quest: Interactive Guide to the Second Half of Life The Quest Discover A Way To Enjoy The Second Half of Life A transformative journey through ten waypoints toward wholeness, enlightenment, and the holy grail of living fully in life’s second half. “We are growing older. When America became a nation, only one in five…

  • Reclaiming the Erotic

    Reclaiming the Erotic

    These profound words written by Audra Lorde—”For once we begin to feel deeply all the aspects of our lives, we begin to demand from ourselves and from our life-pursuits that they feel in accordance with that joy which we know ourselves to be capable of”—speak to something I lived for decades without understanding. The erotic…

  • A Quick Two Minute Shout-Out from Barcelona

    Click HERE to read today’s four-minute post: “Reclaiming the Erotic“

  • When Brandi Carlile Became My Dream Pastor

    When Brandi Carlile Became My Dream Pastor

    To contemplate the significance of our dreams is to explore the meaning of life itself. Dreams add depth to the essential aspects of our lives and the intensely emotional moments that punctuate them. Last night, my subconscious delivered what felt like a masterclass in my own psychological evolution, wrapped in the all-too-familiar imagery of church…

  • The Post that Cost Me Christian Readers (And Why I’m Not Sorry)

    The Post that Cost Me Christian Readers (And Why I’m Not Sorry)

    My friends, I am genuinely flabbergasted. This past week, I wrote about ethical non-monogamy—a thoughtful piece about honest sexual relationships—and watched as Christians unsubscribed. I estimate that practicing Christians compose about 5% of my subscribers. The irony is so thick you could cut it with a communion wafer. After eighteen years of writing about renouncing…