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77 Ibid. p.74.
78 Ibid. p. 59.
79 Ibid. p. 79.
80 Ibid. p.73.
81 Ibid. p. 94.
82 Ibid. p.124.
83 Justin Cronin. City of Mirrors. Ballantine Books. 2016. Kindle Ed. Loc. 2011.
84 Donald L. Nathanson. Shame and Pride: Affect, Sex, and the Birth of Self. W.W. Norton & Company. 1994. p. 128.
85 Ibid. p. 133.
86 Ibid. p. 251.
87 Donald L. Nathanson. Shame and Pride: Affect, Sex, and the Birth of Self. W.W. Norton & Company. 1994. p. 144.
88 Tomkins, Ed. Virginia Demos. Exploring Affect. Cambridge University Press. 199.
89Donald L. Nathanson. Shame and Pride: Affect, Sex, and the Birth of Self. W.W. Norton & Company. 1994. p. 315.
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92 Ibid. p.131.
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142 Ibid. p. 50.
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157 https://livingto100.com/calculator
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159 Louise Aronson. Elderhood: Redefining Aging, Transforming Medicine, Reimagining Life. Bloomsbury Publishing; 1st edition (June 11, 2019).Kindle Edition.
160 Zweig, Connie. The Inner Work of Age: Shifting From Role To Soul. Park Street Press. p. 15.
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167Ibid. p.14.
168 Ibid. p.15.
169 Ibid. p. 244.
170 Ibid. p. 12.
171 Sharon Kaufman. The Ageless Self. The University of Wisconsin Press. 1986. p. 14.
172 Zweig, Connie. The Inner Work of Age: Shifting From Role To Soul. Park Street Press. p. 14.
173Schachter-Shalomi and Miller. From Age-ing to Sageing. Grand Central Publishing. 2008.
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