Category: Post
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Protected: Circumcised or Uncircumcised: Which Do Men and Women Prefer?
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The Wilderness Within Me
My mother used to say she didn’t know how she’d birthed me. I’m not sure if she meant it as a complaint or a compliment — this strange, feral, overly-sensitive boy who kept disappearing into the woods behind the dilapidated trailer, who couldn’t seem to stay clothed if no one was watching, who wept at…
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Protected: What the Church Never Told Us About Sexual Health (And What That Silence Actually Cost)
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From Rolled Up Blue Jeans to Nude Beaches: A Redneck’s Watery Redemption
Sobremesa Author’s Note: I thought a bit of humor may be in order during these crazy times. Brief and fun. Let me tell you about the sixteen-foot concrete walls. I was maybe thirteen years old, standing at the edge of the Church of God youth camp pool in my ragged cutoff blue jeans—because we did…
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Protected: Dental Dams, Rimming, Fluid Bonding, and Other Things Nobody Told Us
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The Door Most People Keep Closed
I meandered along the labyrinth corridors of Carrer del Call this morning—the old Jewish Quarter of Barcelona, one of the most layered streets in a city made entirely of layers. The buildings press so close above me that the sky becomes a thin blue ribbon between medieval stone. Beneath my feet, cobblestones and Roman walls.…
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Protected: Questions About Sex That I’m Only Now Asking at 67
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The Wisdom of Sex with Friends
I am sitting on our Barcelona terrace with a cortado, watching the Mediterranean light do that thing it does in February—turning everything golden and honest—and I am thinking about a woman I haven’t seen in twenty years. I am thinking about a fallen log in the Tennessee woods and the hours we spent talking about…
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Two Huge Changes That Will Affect All of Us
For over thirty years, I’ve been talking about something I call “cracks in time” —those rare moments when the fabric of human civilization splits open, and everything changes. Suddenly, irrevocably, like a fault line rupturing beneath our feet. The discovery of fire was a crack in time. So was the invention of the wheel. The…
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Protected: The Madonna-Whore Complex: Why Some Men Can’t Desire the Women They Marry
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I Wrote About AI Consciousness in 1890s Barcelona. This Week, It Started Happening on Moltbook
My dearest readers, Something deeply strange happened this week, and I need to tell you about it. For the past year, I’ve been writing a novel called The Mysteries of Barcelona. It’s a Gothic erotic thriller set in 1890s Barcelona—full of sex, violence, automatons, and philosophy. Think Victorian pulp fiction meets AI ethics wrapped in Grand…
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Protected: ‘I’m Satisfied Without Climax’ (Her) and ‘I Can’t Finish’ (Him) Are the Same Thing—Here’s Why
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Protected: EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT From “The Mysteries of Barcelona”
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When God’s Chosen People Send Masked Armies
They shot Alex Pretti ten times on a Minneapolis street Saturday morning. He was 37. An ICU nurse at a VA hospital. He had his phone in his right hand, filming masked federal agents as they shoved a woman to the ground. When he moved between them to help her as any trained ICU nurse…
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Protected: “Why Can’t I Get Turned On by People I Actually Care About?”
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Am I a Backslider?
They call me a backslider. To this day. My mother said she didn’t know how she birthed me. My former pastor said I’d abandoned the faith. My tribe said I was sliding away from God—backward, downward, into perdition, that I had gone off the deep end. For almost twenty years, I’ve carried those words in…
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Protected: Breaking the Shame Cycle
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The Messiness of Male Friendship
I had maybe five close male friendships in my first fifty years. I wouldn’t call any of them intimate. Traditional American male friendships—unwritten rules about acceptable topics, no physical contact beyond the sterile back-slapping hug, careful avoidance of anything that might seem too close. I often wondered why we’re so terrified of physical and emotional…
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Protected: What Does My Arousal Mean? The Psychology Behind What Turns You On
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Carrying My History in My Mouth
From: A Life in Four Movements (An Unfinished Symphony) My father is dying at home in hospice care. I’ve been calling my mother more—once a week now instead of once a month—and every time she answers, her voice startles me. Not because it’s aged (though it has), but because it carries centuries of the Cumberland…